First off, an apology as I spelled Meghan incorrectly, leaving out the h.
With Harry being British, and Meghan American, I got two different kinds of answers from fellow Brits, and Americans. As British, we were born to respect the Royal Family, and never question them. They had a job to do, and if it wasn’t done as it should be, it was taken care of. We tend to believe that even if the decision isn’t necessary the right one, it has been made, and will stand.
To my American friends, many of you haven’t lived through the 87 years my husband has, and the 73 for me. My husband joined the R.A.F. the day the King died, and was one of the first to be sworn in under the Queen. He has driven the Queen’s sister, and cousin, and we dearly love them. This is something that will never die in our hearts, and I hope you can understand where it is coming from.
The one thing I cannot believe is that Meghan didn’t know much about the Royal Family, or how “The Firm” works, while dating Harry. This is the first thing I would have done, especially knowing that Diana, and Fergie, where not the type of personality to be able to conform with the rules. I know both of them were unhappy, but there is a reason why the Royal Family have remained firm, and loved.
I am so sorry for Harry and Meghan, and know they did the right thing for them in leaving, but to put that display on with Oprah, I feel was so unfair, as the Royal Family are not permitted to give their side of the story. My heart aches so bad, for both sides.