I had a really good week at the beach, it was much needed. The first 3 weeks after Len’s death, I did what was needed, but it’s strange, because I feel that I wasn’t in control.
Yes, I went to the funeral home, went back and picked up the death certificates, and urn. I made lots of phone calls, filled in lots of forms, went to the D.M.V, got social security sorted out. Struggled with contacting England pensions, because of lockdown. I never succeeded in getting through to anyone on the phone, which was so frustrating. I survived in this time, but I was only going through the motions.
I got home yesterday afternoon, and took it really easy. Today I woke up with lots of energy. I got unpacked, been through all the correspondence, and have piles that are completed, others that need more information/documents, and a couple still to do.
Next it was up to the gym, and I was boxing like my old self. Not just going through the motions like I had been, but giving it a bashing.
I think that I need to plan a few days at the beach every month, because it’s better than going to the doctor’s office.
Awesome Susie! Continue giving that bag a really good bashing.
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I”m so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself and reach out to loved ones and friends if you need to talk. ❤
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Sounds good! One day at a time and an overnighter at the ocean!!
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The ocean is so healing.
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Love the sound of the waves, and the breeze off the ocean 😊
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A week, with only one meeting 😊
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I FaceTime my daughter and my eldest granddaughter today 🙂
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Love it 😀
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Lots of love and prayers for you dear Susie 😊💖You are always an inspiration to us all with your healthy routines and strong spirit. May you stay healthy, peaceful, and joyful
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Sounds a great idea
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Hehe, that sounds perfect! 😉
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Good for you. ❤
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The beach is so reviving! So glad that you feel good beautiful lady
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Not joyful, but feel sure that the grieving will kick in again. Just taking it one day at a time 😊
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Thank you. I will take as many good days as I can.
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