20+ years ago Len asked me what I wanted for our wedding anniversary, as he bought a card, but never a gift. I said that I would like the week of his birthday, and our wedding anniversary at the beach. That was when we bought week 41.
This year his birthday falls on the day I drive down to Treasure Island, so I won’t be stopping for lunch as I won’t want to be eating on my own. Then 2 days later would be our wedding anniversary. I should celebrate it, but know that being the first on my own, I will struggle. I do have friends down there that week, so maybe I could get them to do something to include me. That way it might take my mind off of it.