I had gentleman that was really persistent in wanting to see me. I kept putting him off, and in the end, I said that I would be at Panera Bread at lunchtime..
He was 16 years younger than me, and I had my coffee, so he sat across from me in a booth. We chatted for a few minutes, and then the words came out, they never put them online, I am married but I haven’t slept with my wife in 6 or 7 years.
Well, that was the end of that chat. He was interested in sex, and I wasn’t.
I am now asking them if they are married, and if I don’t get a direct answer then I will delete them from my list of matches.
susiesopinions 
Wise move!
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That’s a sad commentary on those guys, Susie! And a wise one on your part ❤️
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Good decision! Many of them are married, they say they are dissatisfied, but they are not free
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I suppose the only saving grace with this one was, at least he was honest with you!
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Men! That’s one reason why I haven’t dated since losing my husband. I don’t have the time or the energy for those “games.”
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Not at all surprised, and likely goes both ways
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I am glad he was upfront with you. I hope you find someone nice to spend time with. Someone honest and single.
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I didn’t know but I’m not surprised, many people on those apps are not who they claim to be.
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Good question to ask. Who wants to deal with all of that?
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yep they sure are and so are the women! So glad you left.
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I have just two words for you to remember, Susie – Be careful. Stay safe and thinking about today’s weather – stay warm as well. 🙂
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Sick and tired of married men.
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Thank you.
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Exactly 💯
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But I have to meet them to get the truth.
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I get so lonely with my family in England, and my 2 girlfriends still work.
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I have no idea.
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I am to the point that wonder whether they even exist
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Exactly
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I am lonely, and the Hospice Councilor suggested it.
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They absolutely do, Susie. With as active and outgoing as you are, I am sure you will connect with someone who deserves your time.
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There are people like me that would enjoy doing lunch or dinner once a week with a couple of different gentlemen, but I suppose we are far and few between.
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I am going to try and post a video of my boxing today. Fast and furious. I think they have got to be careful 🥊🥊🏋♀️
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It’s the evenings when I miss Len so much. I can deal with the days.
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I am so sorry, Susie. I know how much you did for Len and how much you have done to move forward since losing him. I really wish all the best for you. 💫
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Definitely! 😔
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You need to get them to pay for lunch then it’s not a wasted trip!!
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Understandable
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😚😘
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I totally understand. It’s nice to have someone to hang out with. I hope you find a nice guy who treats you well AND isn’t secretly married.
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