My first dating app Bumble seems to be the only one where real people have contacted me. I did lunch with a guy before Christmas, but it was only the once.

Another one I have met for lunch in Dunedin, and also Tampa. He is very nice but works a lot. We text often.

Today I am meeting a guy for the first time, and we chose a restaurant that is much closer to me, than him.

I do like lunch dates, in busy restaurants, so that I feel comfortable being there.

There are no expectations for me in any of these meetings, but even if it’s friendship, working out at the gym together, or dancing, then it brings joy into my life.